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Do Children Pick Their Parents?

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Do you believe that children pick their parents? Do you think that before souls are incarnated here they get to choose their parents and their family? Take a moment to read this article with an open mind and explore this idea, it has huge implications for your life and why you are here.

 

Think about this hypothetical situation: One second before you were born, someone else was born some place in Asia. One second after you were born, someone was born somewhere in Africa. Is it chance that you were not born one second early or late? Or that you were not born in either one of those locations? Or is there order to when and where souls are born?

 

A lot of people struggle with this question because they think if they really did choose their parents, they would have picked loving, better ones or a better family. But the reality is all the pain that you have experienced in your life happened for a reason and helped you grow and learn. There is not one human being on this planet that has not experienced some form of pain, it is a part of life. We are here to grow and pain is a necessary part of the process.

 

You can have a perfect, loving home and your spouse cheats on you, or make it through college wonderfully and struggle with a career, or have a perfect life and your child gets leukemia. Everyone experiences bouts of storms throughout their life, and some people started the storm process early because that’s the best portal for them to come into the world. If you can’t answer why you chose your parents, you haven’t got the lesson and the growth yet.

 

If you can identify the lesson and the growth but you are only partially certain that it’s true, your karmic journey and destiny will be to recreate the challenge in some other form or fashion so that you get the lesson. You need what the portal provided you so that you can really enhance your destiny.

 

So if you had a troubled family, or one of your parents left at an early age, or you were adopted, look at how it has shaped who you are today. Look at the half full strengths and lessons that you have gained because of it, and you will be able to see why you picked your parents. Get deep and look at what lessons you needed in this lifetime and why the pain you experienced happened, it will shed a lot of light into your true purpose and it might make you feel better about all the tough moments in your life.

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  • Camila Lemonade
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    April 26, 2019 at 11:36 AM

    What about children that are neglected, mistreated, abused, abandoned by their parents?
    It’s really unfair to say they deserved that pain, for no children deserves some kind of pain some parents put them through…

    • Bryan Hemmer
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      July 24, 2019 at 11:55 AM

      It is a great question Camila, and it is addressed in the article. It does not mean that the child deserves to be mistreated or abused. one of the main points is that some people have a really tough time with this theory because of this very reason, that some children have abusive parents or tough childhoods. And, it is these tough experiences early on in life that make many of these people stronger and more resilient as adults. There is always a strength, lesson, or growth from it, and oftentimes it is not acknowledged or recognized.

      • Waechivencat
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        September 11, 2020 at 1:49 PM

        Bryan but it is those same bad experiences that they’ve had when they was growing up , that mess up the way they’ve becomes as an adult. Sometimes people become bitter , heartless and etc…because the pain their parent made them go through

  • K
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    October 15, 2019 at 7:50 AM

    I see what you’re saying. The problem with this theory is that most people who believe in it assume that the child deserves their mistreatment because they picked or created the circumstances. But the circumstances was already there before they came because of the adults that made those choices, circumstances, and living conditions. And babies are not the one who laid down to have the child. You can’t make a child responsible for being born when It’s a natural thing that happens when you have unprotected sex to populate the earth. This theory is what makes people become depressed and want to kill themselves. Because the people qho believes this stuff doesn’t take responsibility for things they do. Like being told you chose to be born to a specific parent/family to love them unconditionally. Even though it was placed in you to be this way from the parent and not you willfully being this way. No matter how evil that parent is or how evil people are, your purpose is to be mistreated, abused, hurt and take all because That’s your gift! That’s what you are here for because the parent claims to have a dream as they all do that you were to be born to them. REALLY?! The responsibility needs to be put back on older generations and parents. Children coming into this world are given it the way it is. We as adults have to make it safe and livable for the future. Not tell our kids, accept your fate because you chose me, I didn’t choose you!

    • Sister Dani
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      December 2, 2021 at 6:35 AM

      That’s not what the article is saying at all. Nobody has a perfect life. Even if a family seems perfect, abuse can very much be alive. Life isn’t fair. It’s not about being fair. It’s about leaving with a greater lesson.
      Babies are so pure at birth. They don’t have hate in them, they don’t judge people, nothing is too big of a problem especially if that soul feels it needs that lesson. Obviously no child deserves to be abused, neglected, or mistreated. That’s just common sense.

  • Dorothy M Dunn
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    June 15, 2020 at 11:52 AM

    Does it say in the Bible that we choose our parents.

    • Gretta
      · Reply

      December 2, 2021 at 6:36 AM

      The Bible isn’t real

  • Rebecca
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    December 22, 2021 at 3:22 AM

    The implication is all these comments is that deserving something/finding meaning in something and choosing something are the same thing. They’re not. The real argument here is that regardless of the meaning and beauty and character that some people are able to build out of their past suffering, they didn’t CHOOSE to be born into that situation. Some parents literally murder their babies. Did the babies choose those parents? How does this theory stand among children who are adopted? Which set of parents did they choose, the birth parents or the actual parents who raise them? What about foster kids who are never adopted? Did they choose the parents that abandoned them, or did they choose to have no parents? Making the best out of a bad lot in life and finding the meaning and inevitability of your being is not the same thing as CHOOSING your parents in some kind of cosmic pre-birth soul incarceration selection process.

    • Anna
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      May 25, 2022 at 9:08 PM

      Yes, they did choose all their parents. We knew how our life would be, we choose it anyway to learn from it. Our souls are incapable of feeling emotions so we choose to incarnate to learn all kind of lessons: understand all kinds of pains and all kinds of happiness too. I’m not sure how it works with children who are killed by their parents, maybe they’re wiser souls trying to help a lost soul back to consciousness, or to heal their karma. And about adopted children, it’s interesting to note that adopted children have similar energies in their birth chart as their adoptive parents (something that commonly happens with biological parents) so I do believe they chose the adoptive parents as their family.

  • Karez
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    January 19, 2022 at 1:43 AM

    I love this article ❤️

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