There is a notion that who you are today, and why you are who you are, is stagnant or unchanging. In traditional psychology, they will teach you that through Myers-Briggs or DISC or some popular personality assessment, or you have psychologists or teachers that will talk to you about who you are, they will…
I would bet that anecdotally, 85% of my clients absolutely DO NOT KNOW their purpose. They work hard, they’re good people, they show up, they’re good parents, they pay their bills, they’re growing their lives. But when you ask them, “What’s your purpose?” They respond with, “I don’t know,” or, “That’s a great question. I’m…
There are three massive overarching tools in The Inevitable You® coaching system that explain the primary ways that people think and process information, and their behavior and actions. This is a big one, it’s called “matching and mismatching.” There are people who have a natural tendency to “mismatch” things when they look at something….
To truly understand, embrace, own, consciously choose, and live an exhilarating and extraordinary life, you must design and run the “mental software” of the Greatest Version of You. First, know that it is not about perfection, it is a version of you. There is no final version of anything. We are constantly improving our Greatness! With every…
Addictions are one of the biggest mythical areas in psychology. We have more 12-step programs than we know what to do with. We have sexaholics, narcotic addicts, alcoholics, shopaholics, gambling addicts… When you look at all the “addicts,” we cover 75% of the population. However, did you know that the most commonly used recovery program,…
There are many methods and strategies on how to relieve stress, but the most important thing you can do to minimize the harmful effects of stress is to change the way you perceive it and talk about it. This is one of the most important things I’m going to tell you: when you’re in a…
Many people are actually unconsciously working against themselves. If you say you want to make a change, is that really what you want at your core? Does the obese person want to be thin? Does the depressed person really want to be happy? Does the angry person really want to be calm? On a conscious…
The 6 human needs are one axis of examining human psychology and behaviors. It is the equivalent of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, it’s just done through the scope of “neural patterns.” They are: 1. certainty 2. uncertainty 3. significance 4. love/ connection 5. growth 6. contribution The first is the need for certainty, and…