How many times have we told ourselves we are going to change a habit or a part of our lives only to go right back to that same behavior a short time later? If you’re like most people it’s embarrassing to admit how many times you’ve done the above. Here are four reasons why so…
We hear all the time, “It’s so hard to change” and “people hate change.” That is not true. If you are going to consciously use language and descriptors to build your reality, the truth is we love the change that we love and we only hate the change that we hate. Now you can…
A client brought this challenge up last week. They have a family member they want to help, but they haven’t made the attempt to help because they feel it might be a “lost cause.” Here’s what they wrote: “I have people in mind that I want to teach The Inevitable You® to and practice…
There is a principle (and there’s different variations of this) that says if you average the top six people that you have consciously chosen to spend the most time with, you will find you. And it’s not the coworker that was forced into the cubicle next to you (although there is energy there…
Realizing that wealth is a mindset and “mental software” and it is not “data” like money and account balances is so important. What does that mean? The metaphor is, you can have the perfect diet but people will not follow it because their mindset is not about “thin and powerful.” You can…
There is a notion that who you are today, and why you are who you are, is stagnant or unchanging. In traditional psychology, they will teach you that through Myers-Briggs or DISC or some popular personality assessment, or you have psychologists or teachers that will talk to you about who you are, they will…
I would bet that anecdotally, 85% of my clients absolutely DO NOT KNOW their purpose. They work hard, they’re good people, they show up, they’re good parents, they pay their bills, they’re growing their lives. But when you ask them, “What’s your purpose?” They respond with, “I don’t know,” or, “That’s a great question. I’m…
There are three massive overarching tools in The Inevitable You® coaching system that explain the primary ways that people think and process information, and their behavior and actions. This is a big one, it’s called “matching and mismatching.” There are people who have a natural tendency to “mismatch” things when they look at something….
To truly understand, embrace, own, consciously choose, and live an exhilarating and extraordinary life, you must design and run the “mental software” of the Greatest Version of You. First, know that it is not about perfection, it is a version of you. There is no final version of anything. We are constantly improving our Greatness! With every…
Addictions are one of the biggest mythical areas in psychology. We have more 12-step programs than we know what to do with. We have sexaholics, narcotic addicts, alcoholics, shopaholics, gambling addicts… When you look at all the “addicts,” we cover 75% of the population. However, did you know that the most commonly used recovery program,…