Do you believe that children pick their parents? Do you think that before souls are incarnated here they get to choose their parents and their family? Take a moment to read this article with an open mind and explore this idea, it has huge implications for your life and why you are here.
Think about this hypothetical situation: One second before you were born, someone else was born some place in Asia. One second after you were born, someone was born somewhere in Africa. Is it chance that you were not born one second early or late? Or that you were not born in either one of those locations? Or is there order to when and where souls are born?
A lot of people struggle with this question because they think if they really did choose their parents, they would have picked loving, better ones or a better family. But the reality is all the pain that you have experienced in your life happened for a reason and helped you grow and learn. There is not one human being on this planet that has not experienced some form of pain, it is a part of life. We are here to grow and pain is a necessary part of the process.
You can have a perfect, loving home and your spouse cheats on you, or make it through college wonderfully and struggle with a career, or have a perfect life and your child gets leukemia. Everyone experiences bouts of storms throughout their life, and some people started the storm process early because that’s the best portal for them to come into the world. If you can’t answer why you chose your parents, you haven’t got the lesson and the growth yet.
If you can identify the lesson and the growth but you are only partially certain that it’s true, your karmic journey and destiny will be to recreate the challenge in some other form or fashion so that you get the lesson. You need what the portal provided you so that you can really enhance your destiny.
So if you had a troubled family, or one of your parents left at an early age, or you were adopted, look at how it has shaped who you are today. Look at the half full strengths and lessons that you have gained because of it, and you will be able to see why you picked your parents. Get deep and look at what lessons you needed in this lifetime and why the pain you experienced happened, it will shed a lot of light into your true purpose and it might make you feel better about all the tough moments in your life.